Friday, November 14, 2008

Home for Families: A Miracle in the Making

Homes for Families: A Miracle in the Making

A miracle in the making of finding more than a home which is a place of rest, a place of relaxation, a place of recreation, a place of relaxation, and a place of tranquility within the home; a home of serenity seems to be too good to be true as the times we are living in. As in previous writing ways to find funding for homes, how to find homes for infants, children, adolescents, and how to build a home from a life course perspective as working with the homeless, those who have plenty, and the less fortunate.
A miracle in the making of having a home without dysfunction, without abuse, without substance abuse, without arguments, and without divorce would be a miracle. A home filled with love, compassion, understanding, long-suffering, and a gentle meek spirit in which to come home to after a long day’s work, and a family that still sits at the dinner table and gives grace before their meal. A home of stability, edification, respect, and a home where others are more concerned of giving to one another than receiving from one another. Taking selfishness out of the big picture so that all could shine as each member works on bringing out the best in one another where togetherness exists. A home where a family emotionally connects with one another, supports one another, and completely trusts one another. A home where the stated above is the foundation of a strong home so that when the trials and tribulations come and the stormy winds begin to blow and all hell seems to break loose unexpectedly; the family is still intact, solid, bending, but not broken as they ride the waves of a rough and rocky storm as the waves get rougher and higher as the tide moves in. It seems to be that the storms of life never cease, yet it is how we ride the rough waves of life that determines our success.

The life structure of a family’s daily behaviors is part of a person’s character, and the developmental stages within the life course perspective linked to that of Erickson’s Stages of Psychosocial Development which are critical in the early stages of life. As well as the importance of the spiritual development within the home and becoming culturally sensitive within the home of understanding different cultures and seeing passed the isms as a family becomes culturally sensitive to the needs of other ethnic backgrounds within the community and society at large.

As the wife is the reflection of her husband and when a wife is happy and looks her best it is a reflection of the husband that he is doing something right. The husband has the ability to enhance her self-confidence, and the wife increases the husband’s confidence with much respect is shown. However, the self-worth, and self-value of a man and a woman affects the child or children growing up. The child or children must know who he or she is, and that identity is not in what a person wears drives, lives, or works. As those are very important and one should take pride in those which present an image, but to not get caught up in the materialistic image; however, to be more concerned with the non-materialistic upon which a true foundation is built instead of a superficial foundation. Two of the most important things upon which a home are built are respect and trust as respect must come before trust. A miracle in the making of building a home that will last.